If
you want children, the affection should be visible
The
father has the full responsibility for the well-being of his children,
since they don't have anybody else.
The
father is his son's first spiritual teacher, and the first responsible
person for teaching him the necessary to respect the will of God.
The
parents should educate their children in such a way as to take
advantage of the human form and to overcome the repeated births
and deaths which is a cycle thru which one manifests in all the
forms of reincarnation.
If
there is division between father and mother that naturally breaks
the child's heart. God has created father and mother for only
a complementation of man and woman can offer the children an integral
education and they can be developed better in life.
Good
parents solve their difficulties privately and they don't hurt
the public and the children. The
family is the smallest social unit, the original institution of
the whole human structure. If the family is in pieces, the rest
of the society equally doesn't have hope.
It
is necessary to strengthen the family remembering that we are
all dependent of the mercy of God, of having been created and
of being a maintained being.
To
maintain God in the center of the family implies to frequently
meet and to speak with all the family members about this topic.
Although
a father has the authority over his children, one should not forget
that true authority comes from the Supreme Personality of Godhead.
If the Lord doesn't approve of their performance, the father and
the mother lose all authority.
Justice
is human, forgiveness is divine. To
know how to forgive means to understand the attitude of God towards
us. The
original father is known by the mother, as well as your father
is known by your mother.
The
power of discrimination was granted to us so that we can choose
the good and reject the bad. It is necessary to educate the children
with love, to avoid the neccessity to punish the adult later.
In
education, love implies submission and discipline. Laziness and
violence should not appear in the family, they are symptoms of
ignorance and of a bad nature.
God
gives us the gift of a child and God is capable of blessing us
to be inspired to become good parents. Many
families worry only of food and clothing, not of morals and values.
The
development of spiritual consciousness in the home is of more
importance.
Learn
how to listen to others, because dialogue is the solution for
most conflicts. There
is no problem that you cannot solve when you put God in the center
of your home.
A
tree is known by its fruits. Each action can be judged by its
results.
We
should learn how to ask for forgiveness for our errors and to
have the disposition of not repeating them.